I know I've been missing in action.  Busy getting ready for the holidays, organizing choas, blah,blah blah, but most significantly has been an interesting crop of new patients. I'm gettting more and more patients in their senior years. They…

I'm talking to my gaggle of girlfriends, or out with the cool group of spinmamas the new "red hat society" for women in their 30's and 40's, and of course, the conversation turns to sex. Women approaching 40 seem to go one of two ways. …

I have the hots for Andy Kessler. Not that I've ever met him, and the back flap picture I'm sure doesn't do him justice, but his writing is smart, funny, incredibly astute, and articulate. Something I find sexy every time in a man.  I'm…

My partner hates when I get strange packages in the mail. He usually assumes (correctly) that it's some wierd, new, sexual device that I'm going to chase him around the house to try out with me. I got a smaple of the new Liberator sex cushions…

So by now you may have discovered my secret obsession for schmaltzy chick lit. Chocolate and very light reading (I haven't sunk as low as the bodice rippers, but they too have their appeal). Anyway, I'm in the book store yesterday and start…

I know it's frustrating. Believe me, I understand it.  I speak to men all day long, who just can't hang on. It's also teeth nashing time to be the partner of someone who is a little quick.  If women need 10-14 minutes of intercourse…

I was cleaning out my purse this morning (a weekly occurance) and found the list of role playing fantasies that were brainstormed during my workshop last week with Midori. I thought if you were bored, (and given Halloween costumes are dirt…

So I've decided I'm going to get my pubes zapped.  After decades of shaving (years of those little red bumps), ingrown hairs in hard-to-reach-spots, screaming as the hot waxed is ripped from stem to stern, melting the hair with noxious chemicals…

So my tribute to Halloween this year was by taking a Midori workshop on role playing. Midori, a Japanese American from San Francisco, is one of the world's leading sex presenters in the area of kinky and fetishes. She put on a fabulous workshop…