I've been pondering the difference between love and lust - the mass of phermones, and organic chemicals that turns your brain to mush, and your legs to rubber. I've loved a few men, and think I've even been in love briefly once or twice. I've…

Ask any woman about the power of hormones. Every month fertile women are given on on upfront and personal look at how our biochemistry controls behaviour. Men have the same problem, only its constant, and is what gets them out to bars on a Saturday…

It started with a new patient and his wife who were struggling with his submissive desires. He wanted his wife to dominate him sexually, and take over in a female superior kind of way, of their life - making her the leader in their marriage.…

You know women talk about sex. A lot. Well I was camping this week (bug bites, frogs, snakes, countless fish, and burnt marshmallows), and sitting around the campfire the conversation naturally headed south. The kind of conversation you can…

Tomorrow is midsummer's eve. The summer solstice, the longest day of the year, my half birthday truth be told (hint sailor, bring chocolate...). My favourite Shakespearian play - beats Romeo and Julliet "What light from yonder window breaks?…

My little brother gave me a gift yesterday. We are an especially literate family, and always trade back and forth books, but along with the books he handed me a box of magnetic erotic poetry words for the fridge at my office. Never mind why…

I wrote a bunch of stuff on desire yesterday and then did something before saving it properly and it all disappeared. Duh!  Thought I would rant about something else, but the desire question won't go away today. I thought desire was something…

As a natural blonde of Scottish decent, I don't tan, rather I ignite. My ancestors lived in a cave in the North Atlantic, eating cod, and having their hairy legs protect them from the sun. So I have two skin tones, fish belly white, and sunburnt…

So, I took my first stripping class today. And I now have a new appreciation for the hard work that peeling truly is. My bum is sore. My hands are sore from gripping the pole, and trying to get up off the ground gracefully was an oxymoron. However,…