The case of the missing erection
For most men erections happen with little or no thought. And since the advent of the wonder drugs (Viagra and the like), even older men are having good success over their Willys'. When a man comes to see me for erectile dysfunction it's…
Sexual anorexia, bet you've never heard of it, and it has nothing to do with food
Had an interesting sex problem to deal with today. A full blown case of sexual anorexia. For my purposes here, sexual anorexia is one form of sexual addiction, where one partner would rather masturbate and view porn on the internet than…
Why not having sex with your partner should be considered attempted murder
Another monday morning and another book. Today it's Daniel Amen's (a psychiatrist and neuroscientist) book called Sex on the Brain. He starts with a study by Dr. Dean Ornish about a study where ten thousand men were asked one question:…
I'm quoting Jerry Springer…
Who said "that what men want from women are the same things they want from their underwear. A little support, and a little flexibility."
I think men are looking for women who are good looking (that 70% waist/hip ratio,…
Have you ever wanted a secret lover… me too
It must be a case of raging-almost 40 year old hormones that I find myself checking out men at Starbucks. I watch the blind and first dates being played out over grande moch latte's. I also watch the body language of what I think our married…
Beauty and the Geek – a train wreck I can't stop watching
I watch less than an hour a week of television, and instead I usually have my nose in a book for my mindless entertainment. But I have a fascination with human relationship drama, and got caught up watching the first episode of that Beauty…
Bait and Switch.. the new relationship motto
I have a bit of a penchant for smart, funny, literate men. I wrote about my not-so-secret hankering for Andy Kessler The author of The End of Medicine who fills all my requirements and looks hot on his book cover picture. Hey, if he smells…
My New Year's Resolution…more sex
I don't know about you, but this girl's gotta have it. I've been blogging for awhile, Hell, I practically preach from the hilltops about how, and why sex is good for you. I've said it before, and I'll say it again, I think it's as important…
It's all downhill from here
The common belief is that women hit their sexual peak about age 37. Considered the power age for women, your body has learned all that it needs to know, and your hormones are happy bubbling away at top performance about then. After that…
How to duct take your willy
So another story this week from a new premature ejaculator. I was asking if he was circumcised, and he mentioned that he was, along with baby smooth all over. I asked in passing is he waxed or lasered (all the rage for cleaning up the…