I'm back

Hey, I was never the kid with the diary. Some of my friends journaled about their life daily, one of them, my friend Kim is just publishing her teenage memoires as she wrote about the going through an adolescent pregnancy. She's now a grandmother…

Choline – Not the stuff they dump in swimming pools.

I'm having fun doing some fairly intensive study into the sexual benefits of certain supplements. That is, pop some African tree bark, or some obscure Brazilian berries and turn in to a raving nymphomaniac, or have the 4 hour hard on. Without…

The Case of the gigantic testicles

As a sex therapist I've seen, heard, and documented a few interesting things.  Other people's sex lives really are fascinating conversation. But every now and then I come up with something that leaves me gobstopped. Floored, and taken…

Don't mind me, I'm just having an orgasm

It's funny how sex is everywhere if you know where to look.  Just back from a trip to Florida (3 days at Disney, a little sand, water, and palm trees and back to snow) sigh... Anyway I was sitting behind a couple of honeymooners who had…

Is honeymoon sex really the best sex of your life?

I'm going to a cousin's wedding reception, after she and her new husband eloped in Bali a few months ago. In the pictures, not just the ones in the white dress, but the following shots of her in Australia touching crocodiles, or hiking in Thailand…
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If you meet me, I smell like orages, coconuts and cinnamon

One of my favorite, most cited sex studies in the last few years was one done by Dr. Alan Hirsch from Chicago, who found that our limbic (primative brain linked with sex) gets turned on by certain smells. For men, their testosterone levels go…

Would you rather eat chocolate than have mind blowing, toe curling sex?

It's freezing cold here. I mean minus 35 with the wind chill, huddle under the covers, get frostbite in seconds kind of cold.  For you non-Canadian readers, and hey I might have a few people that have actually read this blog from the warmer…
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It's not the size of their feet, it's the size of thier ring fingers

My partner has size 13 feet.  But more importantly, his ring finger is longer than his index finger. So what,  you say?  Well next time you are in the bar scouting out potential cowboys for that midnight ride, don't be concerned about the…

The case of the missing erection

For most men erections happen with little or no thought. And since the advent of the wonder drugs (Viagra and the like), even older men are having good success over their Willys'.  When a man comes to see me for erectile dysfunction it's…
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Sexual anorexia, bet you've never heard of it, and it has nothing to do with food

Had an interesting sex problem to deal with today. A full blown case of sexual anorexia.  For my purposes here, sexual anorexia is one form of sexual addiction, where one partner would rather masturbate and view porn on the internet than…