sex, exercise and weightloss
So I binged on Halloween candy - again. I had been doing so well, but October has my weight up, not down and I am having difficulty fighting the lure of chocolate. Between Thanksgiving and Halloween , I seem to be surrounded. Sex and chocolate,…
When misinformation is used for a political agenda
I'm a big fan of Garth Turner's blog about being a Canadian Member of Parliament. Strong writing is great anytime, and he's a very cool, and articulate member of the House(well worth reading). Now kicked out of the Conservative caucus for telling…
The business of sex
I was reading about the 27 year old single mother owner of one of the busiest escort agencies in North America. Located - not in New York or LA, but in Fort McMurray, Alberta in the far north of cowboy country. Fort McMurray a "gold-rush…
Of Princes and Prostitutes
I sat in the same rarefied air of His Highness, The Aga Khan, spiritual leader to the world's Ishmailis yesterday in Ottawa. He was in town to hang out with the Prime Minister, and I was in the lobby for a meeting of the same hotel …
Hanging on to yourself
Picked up a book on my shelf that I hadn't read in awhile. An incredible primer on re-connecting sexually with your partner. A must read for anyone working with couples, and individuals wanting to re-connect between the sheets. It's…
What makes a man sexy?
This month's Oprah magazine that I was reading at the spa today (when the going gets tough, the tough go to the spa-that's my motto), anyway, while I was getting a pedicure, I read the article about The sexiest real men in the US. They had…
Not shot necessary for us older sexually active chicks
So there is a new shot that will prevent you from getting the virus associated with genital warts that causes women cervical cancer. Considering genital warts are rampant, and close to 75% of Canadians will be exposed to the virus in their…
To rag or not to rag…hmmm
So there is a new little pill that will will revolutionize your sex life, and change humanity forever. No, it's not Viagra, it's a new female birth control pill called Anya (like the singer) that will forever relegate your monthly curse to…
Why sexual boredom may be because of too much intimacy
There's an article in this week's Maclean's Canada's weekly magazine talking to therapisr Esther Perel about boring sex in marriages. She says in her experience it's just as often the men who withhold sex in the relationship (not my experience…
It's amazing how men keep from pulling out thier penis's in polite company
I'm often astounded how guys hold it together. How they don't spontaneously combust - blow up from a serious lack of sex. The longer I'm a sex therapist, the more I believe that the average guy wants, and needs about 10 times the sex…