Feeling positive about your sexual self.

Let’s talk about the things women can do to feel more positive about their sexuality. There have been two articles published this week outlining some new research. The first is on ways to become more open sexually. And the second is about…
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New research in sex

I think every University psychology student wants to study sex. It’s on their minds (constantly) and like anyone who is newly sexual, they think they have discovered how cool sex can be. But the truth is that there is very little new in…
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Even more new research in sex!

New sex and relationship research and why it is important to your relationship We see a good amount of movies as a couple. When you preach date nights, you better walk the talk. We try and balance the movies between seeing the new Marvel movies…
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Why words like mistress, and cheating are on their way out. The language of Non-Monogamy

Non-Monogamy is rapidly moving up the list of most common topics I see in my office. The culture of sexual openness is advancing quickly it seems. More and more people are asking me about swinging, polyamory, and ethical non-monogamy in my office.…
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The new dating rules for women. Or why you might still be single after years of dating.

One of the most interesting thing that's been coming out of the cool men's group my husband runs on Tuesday nights (hot men in our living room) is hearing the dating stories about women from a male point of view. While I'm not privy to the discussions…
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What women find sexy. And suggestions if you are struggling to attract women

        It's been amazing to watch the guys in the men's group change. From awkward, bitter and confused about women to being coached by other guys to success. As Blaik says "the group is 25% education, 50% genuine sharing, and another…
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Nine Amazing Autumn Date Ideas. And What to do if You Are Looking for a Relationship

I was standing at Subway and talking about the weather with the woman making my sub. I mentioned that it’s much cooler outside and she concluded that it means “it’s the season for love. In the summer it’s too hot to rub up against someone”,…
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What can you do if you have painful intercourse? Here are 5 suggestions to use tonight

I've written about this before but despite talking about dyspareunia (painful sex) and vulvodynia (generalized vulva pain) to countless of women the numbers in my office complaining about painful girl bits seems to be higher than ever. I like…
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Why you (or a man in your life) needs a Men's group

I make sure I'm out Tuesday night. It's the Men's group and scotch tasting in my house (run by my husband Blaik) and it's full of hot men talking about women and finding their own masculine process. Apparently much of it is done through laughter,…
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School of Sex on non-monogamy followed by a Zumba dance class and then burlesque

SEPT 29 in Ottawa starting at 3:30 41 Rosemount Ave We are trying something different with our sex skills school. We know there is a need for continuous information. We want to do weekly 45 minute classes rather than a two hour presentation.…
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