Despite the belief that most people are even having sex or want to be truth be told that lack of partners and inhibitions about sex often impact sexual behaviour. In the 50’s Alfred Kinsey found that up to 19 percent of adults do not engage…

I was asked recently if I had a list of sex things to try during this time of Covid-19 and self isolation with a partner. With time together, stress to burn off having a list of activities that you can check off as a Hell yes, Fuck no or a solid…

There is a virtual men's group starting this week. It's irreverent, authentic, funny, and will give you a space to talk about unconventional relationships. And the best part- It's free. And absolutely magic. I can't recommend it enough. I've…

During the 70's the Romanian dictator Nicolae Ceaușescu mandated that his country start a baby boom. Ceasecu wanted to breed workers and soldiers by the millions. He banned birth control and dictated that women essentially stay pregnant. He…

Where I come from there has been sex education taught in the schools for over 40 years. Often taught by gym teachers who would rather be doing anything else then discussing Fallopian tubes and dealing with "the smell of puberty in the morning"…

There is this great article in Men's Health magazine that essentially says the safest sex at this crazy time is to masturbate your way through the next weeks of quarantine. Porn Hub gets it. The big porn platform is giving everyone free access…

Use it or lose is more than a phrase. It's a call to action about your sex life. And the truth is that every study done for the last 30 years shows that sex is good for you. It turns out that if you stop having sex or engaging in regular masturbation…

A disproportionate number of clients in my office are for hyposexual libido or low sex drive. Many of my low libido clients finally arrived in my office (or by skye/messenger) when their frustrated partners have finally lost it and threatened…

I've got a new book to share to clients and Duckling members. It's an ebook called your sex bucket list that I will happily email to you if you reach out to me. It's been interesting interviewing clients and group members about the kind of things…