There are lots of women who want sex more than the men in their lives.

I had posted this article about the new survey suggesting that more than 50% of women want more sex than their husbands.

I had a bunch of feedback from clients including this that I wanted to share.

“Since my husband stopped wanting to have sex I have realized why some people cheat, specifically men. Since our sex life went from 2-3 times a day to once a month if I begged for it, I have felt lonely and unwanted. I crave attention. I want to be wanted more than anything in the entire world. I miss the feel of his hands on me. I miss his lips on my neck. I miss his desire to kiss me every chance he had. I would never be one to cheat on my husband but since our sex life changed I think about it all the time. My craving to get fucked is getting to be almost too much to bare. That look in his eyes, that sexy smile…it’s all gone and I want to feel again what those things used to do to me. Through all of my nights lying awake I realized why I think most men cheat. It is exactly what I am feeling right now but the opposite. It has nothing to do with love or not being attracted to their wife anymore. It is that their wife has shut them out (marriage, babies, busy schedules) and their desire to be needed and wanted has gotten to be too much to bare. And they gave in to those needs. Especially once a woman has a baby their desire to have sex dwindles. And women tend to see a man’s desire to have sex as just that, sex. When in fact their desire to have sex with the woman they fell in love with is no different then a woman’s desire to feel close and intimate with their husband. When the sex stops the intimacy stops. And that is exactly what I am feeling right now. And it has gotten so bad that at this point I almost don’t care where the intimacy comes from, as long as I get it.”