I regularly have Men in my office under the age of 50 struggling with erections. These aren't older men with blood pressure, diabetes, and cholesterol, these are client after client of fit, active men who are freaking about that they are going…

I'm in the middle of another non-monogamy course only this one due to the pandemic is virtual. Because it's online, What's interesting is that there are attendees logging in from all over North America. There are certainly cultural differences…

There is a great article about how using common fantasies to keep you mentally and sexually healthy. It talks about using sex as a source of meditation, and fantasies as a way to soothe yourself when your sex life is less than robust. I am currently…

There is a great book that came out last year by Wednesday Martin called Untrue that explored (and blew up with research) the myths of female sexuality. Women only want romance, that they don't like sex, and are happy with intercourse. As a…

This is the course everyone who is dipping a toe in (or diving headlong into) non-monogamy needs to take! This is the tight, informative, interactive workshop lead by Canada's leading non-monogamy expert. It includes a copy of the workbook the…

There is a great article in the Guardian today that talks about the new top American spy Avril Haines who has just been confirmed to lead all 16 of the US intelligence services. Apparently besides being a pilot, physicist, mechanic, judo expert,…

It turns out that I am one of only a few therapists who specialize in penis size. I honestly thought more clinicians saw clients in their office who struggled with penile dysmorphia (dislike or issues with their appendages). It's such a common…

Here’s an article on the vision behind the site and why it isn’t just another dating site. Let’s face it – no one really likes the online dating experience. Sure, a lot of people eventually find their match. But meeting that person…

Duckling Dating has launched! It has been two years in development, including some bad words at the low points, yet an incredible team pulled it out to deliver the first edition of Duckling…