28 days of sexy Covid lock down. Suggestions to keep things steamy while isolating
Covid has changed everything this year. It’s changed my practice (from face to face to virtual), it’s changed my social group (check out the Ducklings website for our virtual events), and it has amplified whatever is going on in relationships. For some it’s a “staycation”. For others it’s a hostage situation.
But for couples who are spending more time together at home, the lockdown is more than just a chance to binge-watch a random Netflix series. It’s a chance to get sexy together.
Women more than men have an optimal “sex time” of the day. With everyone around all day, taking a moment for a nooner, some afternoon delight or mid-morning romps is at an all-time high. But how do you make it more than regular “meat & potatoes” sex?
I’m in lock down too and I have some up with a list of fun things you can do during your time inside. Some of it involves some inexpensive kit. I buy my toys from Pink Cherry as they are regularly much cheaper than elsewhere online – and they give me loyalty points.
So here is my list. And in this area I am walking the walk. While some experiences are better than others (and that’s a matter of a number of arousing variables) it’s great to try new things. So “on the eighth day of lockdown my true love did to me…”
Stay safe everyone.
Day 1. Go for a ride. Someone on top with a vibrating cockring.
Day 2. Cialis & morning wood. Try the scissor position for something new.
Day 3. Blindfold, ballgag, & blowjob
Day 4. Cosmo game. Pull a card and do exactly what it tell you to do.
Day 5. Shower sex. Do interesting things with soap.
Day 6. Apron on & nothing else. Use a different part of the body to get off. I have great success grinding against knees.
Day 7. Football handjob
Day 8. Wooden spoon on a bare bum. Paddle until you are pink & sensitized. Orgasm at will
Day 9. Reverse cowgirl with his shoulders on a chair, hips raised in a bridge pose
Day 10. Squirting pad and fisted in the morning.
Day 11. Rope bondage (easy to access at any open hardware store). Tied up and no place to go.
Day 12. Fantasy jar. Write at least 3 things each that you would like to try and read them together over your morning coffee.
Day 13. Get a little rough. Pulling hair, light scratching, pillow fight. See where it goes.
Day 14. Watch each other masturbate.
Day 15. Anal play. Lube, baby wipes, and use one finger with gentle tease the opening.
Day 16. Massage exchange
Day 17. Make a sex tape or take some nudes. Just for your eyes only.
Day 18. Sex and food. Maple syrup, whipped cream, cucumbers etc.
Day 19. Heat up some sex candles. Wax play can be very exciting.
Day 20. Challenge your partner to a game of strip poker or strip shots.
Day 21. Order a sex toy you’ve never tried. And may I suggest adding a pair of nipple clamps to the order?
Day 22. Try talking dirty. I like reading an erotic passage. That way I can say the words but it doesn’t come from me.
Day 23. Porn watching together. See if you can find three clips on pornhub or ehamster that you both like.
Day 24. Go for a drive in the car and have car sex!
Day 25. Take a sex quiz together. I think this one is the best of a bunch as it send your partner your answer by email.
Day 26. Turn off all the lights. Watch each other by candlelight only. Take some washable markers and draw on your partner’s body in the flickering lights.
Day 27. Go down on your partner while they are on a work call. Bonus points if they are on a Zoom call.
Day 28. Seduce your partner. Striptease, dress up, nibble at their neck & try to distract them.
After lockdown you may be able to go the sex shop, go out to other places besides the grocery & drug store etc.
Check out what the Ducklings are doing and see if maybe there is a virtual event that may get your juices flowing.
