Covid has changed everything this year.  It's changed my practice (from face to face to virtual), it's changed my social group (check out the Ducklings website for our virtual events), and it has amplified whatever is going on in relationships.…

They offer free University classes to people over 70 where I live. I've decided that when I am retired I want to spend my golden years doing sex research. It's so interesting. There is a summary of the best new findings in sex in 2020 that…

My parents met in high school. My grandparents were next door neighbors. 200 years ago you only had people in your village as potential partners. Now the world is your oyster. And there are dating sites that reflect that. In fact there are hundreds…

I think boner pills should be in every guy over 30’s medicine cabinet. Every man struggles with a bout of ED at some point in their lives. And it gets much more frequent the further north of 30 you go. Cialis, Viagra, Kamagra are big tools…

Every week in my sex counselling practice I’m asked the question “Sue am I a sex addict?” Or “my wife thinks I’m a sex addict”. While anything that affects the pleasure centres of the brain can become addictive (think of the amount…

2020 has been a Hell of year. For most people the chaos of a global pandemic has amplified what’s going on in people’s relationships. And there is nothing like being locked down for months at a time to have even the most ardent introvert…

We had a number of people recently ask about learning to dominate their partners. Or learn to be a pro Domme. Or just up their kinky IQ. We have dominates willing to teach us in a riveting LIVE Grown-up Sex Ed class in a dungeon. It's going…

We had a number of people recently ask about learning to dominate their partners. Or learn to be a pro Domme. Or just up their kinky IQ.We have dominates willing to teach us in a riveting LIVE Grown-up Sex Ed class in a dungeon. It's going to…

List of safe dates you can try As it gets colder it is definitely harder. There are a few drive-in (check out Wesley Clover) or you can make your own with friends by projecting movies to the side of buildings.  The great zoo (Saunder’s Little…