Have you ever had sex on a beach?
No, I’m not talking about the cocktail with orange juice and vodka. I’m talking about sand in your bathing suit and fish nibbling on your toes kind of sex. Think of the “From Here to Eternity” scene where the couple is making out, rolling…
Five reasons why relationships can actually be improved by infidelity
Infidelity (followed by drifting apart, emotional abuse and household/money conflicts) tops the reasons why we have a 52% divorce rate in Canada. I see many of the couples in the aftermath of an affair in my office. What's interesting for many…
Would you rather be balding or have a large penis?
I know it's crazy to keep reading these surveys, but this one jumped out at me. Apparently, for men, if they had to choose:
• 60% of men would rather have a large penis and be balding
• 40% of men opted for a lush, full head of hair and…
Premature Ejaculation- 5 NEW things that you may not know that will help you last longer
Premature Ejaculation (PE or those blasted one minute guys) is a very real phenomenon. It is only second to women with low libido as the most common problem I see as a sex therapist. I have written a number of articles over the years about how…
How not to marry a jerk
What was interesting about the new Canadian Census stats that were released this week is just how many more single people there are living alone than in years gone past. The numbers from Stats Canada shows that more Canadians are living alone…
Why you should lock up the porn and make sure your kids aren't exposed to overt sexual content
I'll admit to having a more European point of view when it comes to sexual content. I'm far more concerned about my kids seeing too much violence ( so no way to Halo 4 despite the pleading) than I am about seeing real people make love. That…
New list of the top aphrodisiac foods.
I have a new list of the top 20 things you can do to increase your libido that I will happily email to you if you send me at note to suem@rogers.com. Some of the new ideas include an updated list of aphrodisiac foods that will put a new bounce…
50 Shades of Gray. Why the trilogy will change your bedroom habits.
I own a healthy collection of women's erotica. Ever since I read Nancy Friday's Forbidden Flowers on a airplane back from Vancouver and literally left a wet spot on the seat behind me, I've been hooked. I have everything from Suzie Bright's…
Have you heard about the new "become a virgin again" vaginal tightening cream?
My first baby was close to 10 pounds and had the head the size of a cantaloupe. It felt like I was ripped in half and it took a bunch of stitches to pull everything back in place. I have never peed the same since. So like many of my patients,…
Sleep sex. How your late night quicky may be something neither of you remember.
Having been a sex therapist for over 20 years there are few sexual problems that I haven't seen in clinical practice. I've seen diaper fetishes, skipping rope obsessions, polygamy in all forms as well as what I thought was every kind of sexual…