Why we love bad boys. Why are they so alluring?
I have counseling a few patient lately who seem to be picking the same guy over and over again - with disastrous results. They want a relationship but find themselves weak in the knees around the leather-jacket wearing bad boy. They date the…
Why do some women always seem to get the guy? The secrets revealed.
I had lunch with a woman I knew from University this week. She was one of those women who wasn't classically beautiful, heavy around the hips, ordinary job but had men follow her every move. I remember wondering what she had that "got the guy".…
How sex can keep you healthy and help you lose weight.
I regularly talk about how sex is soooo physically good for your body. Forget ho good it feels, or how good it is for your relationship, sex is essential for a healthy lifestyle. My friend Dr. Amen says "that is your partner is denying you…
Happy 85th Birthday Marilyn Munroe.

Marilyn would have been 85 years old today, June 1st. She shares a birthday with my 3 year old niece, and I was reading about in the "if today is your birthday thing in the newspaper."She's in the news again this week because of an envelope…
Women have a greater sensitivity to food allergies. Find out why these sensitivities affect your sex drive.
One of my key findings in the Libido Diet book was the discovery of the correlation between food allergies and low sex drive. There isn't a lot of research to support my concusions (just my 20 years of counseling for low sex drive), but my…
The therapist's best list for how to tell if a guy really, truly likes you.
We all know that there is times when you wait by the phone to see if a guy you are interested in might call. That second date, the morning after call, or the casual "let's get together this weekend" call that doesn't come. You tell yourself…
Maria Shriver trying to deal with her husband fathering a child with one of her long time house hold staff.
Maria Shriver and the challenges of a 25 year old marriage to Arnold, the Govenator
I've always thought Maria Shriver was a class act. Smart, poised, with Kennedy breeding and all the California skinniness (okay so she's not perfect). The…
Behind the Whip. What dominatrixes know your the men in your life and why you need to catch up.
I just finished an interview with Maria Coletsis of Vancouver yesterday. She's the professional photographer and researcher who has written the new insightful portrait book called Behind the Whip.
Maria went all over the world photographing…
How watching the Red Wings and other hockey games gets you more sex
As a red blooded Canadian girl I understand the appeal of hockey. In Canada hockey (and Tim Horton's coffee) is as close as we have to a national religion.There is something about padded guys in hockey jerseys skating around at high speed…
The Cinch Diet and The Suprcharged Hormone Diet. Try them this spring and be skinny by bikini season.
There are two hot new diet books just released this spring. One is Cynthia Sass's new
Cinch Diet
that claims to "conquer cravings, drop pounds, and lose inches as her subtitle." The other is by Dr. Natasha Turner called The Supercharged Hormone…