One night stands. Why women are less likely to have them or other booty calls

I've had a patient this week who was beating herself up for her sexual behavior. She went down to one of the urban pick up bars after work this week and took home Mr. Right now for an evening of hot sex. She said it was the walk of shame the…
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New things that can greatly impact your libido

I've been talking about issues with my libido patients for years. I've been warning about high blood pressure medication, anti-depressants, white sugar and flour, the birth control pill, and gastro problems as big culprits. But this week I've…
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Why men need to chill before they can interact. It's all about the hormones.

I'm reading John Gray's new book Venus on Fire and Mars on Ice about male and female hormonal changes. Now John Gray is an interesting guy. He is the #1 best selling realtionship therapist in history with his book about the differences between…
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Happy Endings. The new comedy or what happens at the end of an Asian rub and tug experience?

I actually want to talk a little about both kinds of Happy Endings. The phrase Happy endings used to invoke thought of fairy tales and "happily ever after"... Now as a sex therapist I think about the "jack shacks" or the new breed of masseuse…
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Plan B. When your fall back position is hooking up with the ex.

Have you seen the quote today by Elizabeth Hurley? She's been hanging out with her ex of 13 years, the delectable Hugh Grant. They are learning to speak Italian together, as well as taking guitar and cooking lessons in a friendly competitive…
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Sleep apnea- it kills both you and your sex life. It may be why you feel so lousy.

I used to have a very bad case of sleep apnea. Needed naps in the afternoon, woke up gasping, and had earthquake-like snoring that moved my partner to another room for years. I once casued an international incident falling asleep on an air…
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What is the difference between sexual anorexia and Low libido disorders such as ELD.

I've coined a phrase in my Libido Diet book called ELD. I call it Environmental Libido Disorder.  As I kept seeing the same type of woman day after day in my office I thought- there has to be a physical connection. Here's the checklist for…
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Tips, Toys and Techniques – What is sexy anyway?

The continuing list of fun and crazy ideas to keep your weekend hot. Another Friday afternoon and I am busy getting ready for this weekend's Love and Lipstick show. I'm asking the question, "What is sexy?" It is the hollow in your sweetie's…

Sensual Travels

Naked Vacations Sue reviews the top sexy vacation hotspots! Review of Desire Los Cabos How to make friends at a Nude Lifestyle resort Desire Los Cabos by Sue McGarvie, Clinical sex therapist Review of Desire Riviera Maya - More Naked Vacations Desire…
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Reviews of The Best Sex Toys – Find out about the best sex toys on the market

  Okay, having been a sex educator, therapist, radio and television talk show host, and sex shop chain owner, I've seen ‘em all. All the good, bad, ugly, and exceptional romance products, batteries sometimes included. With two trips to…