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I’ve been thinking about volcano’s this weekend. Partly because of the news of Alaska’s Mount Redoubt volcano erupting four times overnight, for the volcano’s first emission in nearly 20 years. I just happen to think volcano’s are very sexual. You know what I mean. Big, bad boys, that blow hot and dangerous, and erupt spewing a geyser of hot liquid when they get aroused enough. The sexual imagery is clearly strong.
Reseach on sexual trace minerals claims that the populations with the highest virility (still getting it up and producing motile sperm over 100 years of age) all live next to volcanos. Apparently the mineral content of the water, and food grown in volcanic soil keep those small blood vessels clean the longest. Volcanic dwellers apparently have great sex.
Friends of ours travelled recently to the Big Island of Hawaii, and stayed overnight at a private B & B on the side of an active volcano. They were over on the weekend and described the highlight of their recent trip to Hawaii. They stayed at the only house left standing in a field of green surrounded on all sides by molten lava. It was the sole surviving premises after every one of it’s neighbours were washed away or vapourized in 1200 degree lava during the big eruption in 1982. Our friends, were informed by the helicopter pilot that Jack’s lava house takes on guests, they immediately made arrangements for Jack to meet them, and guide them up the mountain for the 5 mile hike over lava rock besides magma rivers to his B & B. As they were telling the story about the vanishing boulders, I kept thinking it would be a great place to dispose of bodies. Unrecoverable, instantly vaporized, with no traces left – dropping a body into lava could be the perfect crime. But I digress.
With no power, Jack on the mountain is entirely self sufficient, living alone on a active volcano that can send lava travelling at close to 30 miles per hour. They had an amazing view of the flares of lava around them, and said they had the most memorable sex of thier lives that night looking at the volcano and surrounding Pacific Ocean. She said “the earth literally moved, and it was incredibly hot”…
I love having sex in interesting and slightly risky places. I think most women do. And I’ve had my share of intimate ski hills, walks in the woodsboffing, and water play. But I can’t top that story of heated, volcano sex. I hope the Alaskans are having great, rumbly sex up north this morning, in the shadow of their very turned-on volcano.
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Another week, another cool sex survey. I guess psychology students would rather study sex than other boring topics in industrial or sports psychology. This one talks about how people who watch a lot of public television have more sex than those who don't. Same with those hot,workaholic women that work more than 60 hours a week. Somehow they fit in time on their backs. Smile
According to a study in the February issue of American Demographics magazine, these findings, as part of a national survey of nearly 10,000 people, show that, there's a lot less sex going on than you might guess. On average, people reported 58 sexual "episodes" a year, just more than one a week. Agh! Once a week? Which is why you need to find partners who like the history and discovery channels. "You and me baby ain't nothing but mammals so let's do it…"
It must be close to the end of the college school year as another survey I was sourced for today came out in the National Post. They asked second year students about what is "normal" and "abnormal" sexual behaviour. Apparently, both men and women still think it still isn't cool for women to have lots of partners, but women can be more sexually adventurous (more anal or threesomes) than guys can. Although men is is socially more normal (according to these students) for guys to have had a bunch of previous partners. And I keep hoping that the double standard goes away and both men and women have as much or as little of sex as they want. I'll source the survey when the story gets posted this week. In the meantime, watch out for those nerdy science girls who work hardest. They are probably the best in bed.
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So they are making some changes over at Sport Illustrated’s annual swimsuit edition. Instead of waiting annually to see the new bathing suits out for summer (and you know the fashion changes are the only reason you look at it, well, maybe you read the latest football news too), they are having a 24/7 swimsuit thing going on. You can never have too much of a good thing. And supermodels on beaches wearing string bikini’s is a classic good thing according to SI. Think of that Bud commercial where you get to go on the plane with beautiful bud girls and the advertisers all line up to be associated with it, and you have an idea of the new SI swimsuit marketing and branding campaign. Move over Hef, the mansion is out of vogue.
LVCVA proudly presents Club SI Swimsuit Las Vegas, an anchor event in a
week of launch activities surrounding the launch of the 2009 Sports
Illustrated Swimsuit Issue. On Thursday, February 12, 2009, more than a
dozen SI Swimsuit models featured in the acclaimed annual will descend
upon Las Vegas for a day of autograph signings and photo opportunities
at select resorts, all culminating with the first ever launch party in
Las Vegas.
Other marketing ideas include a radio spot (supermodels talk?), a downloadable calendar, and night club appearances. What floored me about this story was the numbers. You know looking at the issue is popular but I had no idea just how popular. The Sports Illustrated Swimsuit franchise reaches more than 66 million adults (approximately one in three Americans over the age of 18). 66 million! That’s marketing.
Finally, there is news on the 2009 cover model for this year’s calendar. Apparently is is Bar Refaeli the 23-year-old Israeli, who has been romantically linked to Leonardo DiCaprio, as a first-time cover girl. The shot shows her pulling down her string bikini over her hips. Apparently they were going for a combo of wholesome and sleaze. Here is the shot here is you want to pick up the entire edition on newsstands now.
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Body hair can be a rather sticky subject. Or so I found out when I bought this “do-it-at-home” wax kit from Walmart. I’m a razor girl as a rule. I shave my legs daily, keep the pitts clear of fuzz, and try to keep the bush from migrating down towards my knees. I use a top of the line razor, use baby powder to reach really low without cutting myself, and soap on the rest of me. It’s part of my morning bathing ritual and I thought an acceptable solution to the age old hair removal problem. Until a random comment about “pickyness” had me re-thinking the whole thing. I had tried the creams before and they gave me those little red bumps, and my experience waxing previously had been something akin to the 40 year old virgin scene. Given that I really am a natural blonde, the hair is finer and less visable than my brunette girlfriends. They spend an outrageous amount of money getting lasored and waxed monthly (some have trouble walking for a week afterwards), but are left coiffed and smooth as possible. Blondes can’t be lasored as the lasor can’t “see’ the hair in order to zap it. I have heard that poor estheticians have to deal with “spiders” or the creepy pubes of unkept patrons, that make the inside of the thighs look like party favours, and I didn’t want to deal with the kind of regularity that was necessary to have me not lumped into that category. For me it now seems that razor stubble has me crossing into that new domain into hair removal solutions. Do I shave more often? pluck? Go back to the expensive and time consuming estitcians, or try and assume that hair removal is one of the biggest hassles in being a women and ask for a little understanding?
Previously my rule of thumb had been akin to my friend Chloe in the book Chloe Does Yale, by Natalie Krinsky.
“The general consensus among both male and females was that body hair is not about style or panache, but rather hygiene, and thus the rule of thumb is keep it organized. Pubic hair is like a Filofax. It’s no good when little pieces of paper are sticking out of your Filofax; it makes it difficult to fit into your purse. Same goes for pubic hair. Capiche?”
Which brings you to my current situation. Trying to use a tongue depressor to apply a rapidly hardening green wax to my less than firm inner thighs in anticipation of ripping pain. I managed to make a mess of the whole thing, and after a few serious yelps, and tears of physical anguish running down my face, I ma forced to spend 15 minutes trying to scrape the leftover wax from migrating up my cervix. I obviously need to leave this process to the professionals. Or contemplate going back to my trusty razor. I’ll keep you posted.
ps. We have a Duckling event coming up soon called “spring gardening” where we bring in the manscapers, the straight razor experts and the new lawn care shavers to talk about pubic hair. Come join us?
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Like many people around the globe I watched the swearing in and inaugural speech of Barack Obama this morning. I wish him well, hope he lives long enough to fulfill his mandate. Lord knows his job will get very difficult starting tomorrow. His quote about “imagination has joined with a common purpose”, and his stand on tolerance, diversity and open-mindedness is more than refreshing. One of the things that I see as a marriage therapist is how connected he and Michelle seem to be. I think they show people how loving, two people in a fish bowl can still be, while maintaining their integrity. I’m sure deep down they fall into the Ethical Hedonist model of hot sex. I’m a big believer that great marriages are a gift to everyone else around them, and it will be interesting to see if they can remain as connected despite the enormous pressures. I’m hopeful.
“When he leaned into Michelle as she wrapped her arms around him from behind after the New Hampshire loss, when she cradles his face in her expressive hands while kissing him, with every dap and nuzzle and palpable vibe between them, “you see love onstage,” said Harriette Cole of Ebony, the first in a long line of popular magazines to certify the two as a “hot couple.” All in all, a wholesome package as Barack and Michelle make America cool and marriage cool by making both sexy, or at least ready for their close-up.”
The other thing that I am am convinced in the American world of the right and the far right is an open tolerance to a plenary of sexual differences. He came out against California’s ant-gay marriage law, and after 8 years of Bush preaching abstinence-only education we may see a decline in teenage birth rates as we put forward a common sense, reality based education platform. The world seemed more tolerant today. Let’s hope that message of “unclench your fist and take my hand” will continue.
One of my favorite patients I've ever had as a sex therapist was a man – let's call him M, who came to see me for help finding a new sexual position with his wife after surgery. He was 90 at the time, and his wife was 87. I saw him as he turned 91, and they were still working on keeping a lifetime of sexual activity going. They couldn't do my stairs, and I had to make a housecall, but what a delight they were to see. I regularly see patients in their 70's and a few in their 80's that are working hard to keep what they have going on in the sack.
I just finished Still Doing it, intimate lives of women over 60 the video and book by Fishel and Holtzberg about the amazing, largely uncelebrated, sex lives of older women. Yeah! I can't wait to be having hot sex when I'm old. It was a delight.
"STILL DOING IT: The Intimate Lives of Women Over Sixty is the first book to send out the battle cry, to challenge the myths and misconceptions that surround older women and sex. Women over 60 are still doing it – it being whatever turns them on, from doing humanitarian work to buying a dildo, from climbing Machu Picchu to having the best orgasms of their lives. Sex is so much more than an act – it’s a metaphor for being alive. STILL DOING IT is a call to arms. Women of all ages, stand up! Follow your passions! Fall in love! Get laid!"
I actually gave my copy to my mother for her book club. She's in her late 60's, in fabulous shape, and I know has an active sexual life. It's a suggestion for a interesting Christmas present for your Mom this holiday.
Anyway, it seems that everyone it starting to wise up that older people can still do it. A new research paper and education lecture has been touring nursing homes encouraging staff to celebrate – not make more difficult- the sex lives of their residents.
"The research, whose details were announced today, was presented in October at the American Association of Homes and Services for the Aging conference.
"By law, you can't always lock a room, but you can offer residents some privacy," Doll said. The semi-private rooms that are typical in nursing homes pose a problem for residents who want to engage in sexual activity, either alone or with a partner, Doll added.
In fact, past research has shown that men and women continue to participate in sexual intercourse and "solo activities" well into their 70s and 80s."
We recently met a man pushing 80 at Desire Rivera MayaMexcian lifestyle and nude resort from Canada. His wife (also in her 70's who had no problem with being naked and sexual in the hot tub) had to leave the resort for a day, and gave him cart blanche to get some action if he could while she was away. That's what I want to be like. 80, at a nude resort in Mexico, and able to get sexual advances from other, like-minded people decades younger. Smile.
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Have you been following this story? Man, the price of fame. Apparently, Christie Brinkley is divorcing her husband Peter Cook, who was caught boffing his teenage intern/office assistant.
It seems that even if you have been named one of the “most beautiful women in the world” you are still at risk to get thrown over for the younger woman. I guess even supermodels have difficult relationships. My sweetie says that men at their basic levels categorize women into the “doable” and “not doable” groups. I’ve said it before. I don’t think women get how horny men are, and it’s better to be open sexually, than have it pop up with the apple in your office.
Christie and her life (and sorrid details) are again front page news. It’s the reason I won’t ever run for office (I was very flattered to be asked to run Provincially – but can’t imagine a worse fit for me). I don’t want any job where I have to apologize for who I am. I rule my life with the mantra that I do no harm, and try not to live to embarrass my kids. All that to say that I’m feeling for Christie and her kids when I read this, but wonder about the lure of 18 year old interns for middle aged men. Even when you seem to have everything the temptation is there.
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Do you remember the 20 minute workout? The cheesy, soft-core porn like aerobic workout with the big haired-girls in the 80's?
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I was reading voyeur monkey's article about the top 7 reasons why it sucks to be a male porn star. I know what you are thinking- how hard can it be? Apparently it is frought with a downside that you don't often think about. The hassles include:
1. You have to have sex in a room full of other people, without preamble ALL THE TIME.
2. You can't get it up, and taking Viagra or Cialis has side effects and a built up tolerance to the medication.
3. You make 10 times less than the women only $200 to their $2000 per scene.
4. You have to have good aim when it's time for the money shot. (no explaination needed)
5. You have to have sex with any and all women despite her silicone pumpkin-like boobs, or strange smell, taste, looks, or attitude.
6. You are expected to tolerate anything with no hang ups. Too bad if you don't like anal, oral, double penetration with some onther guy, there are thousands more where you came from.
7. She bites, smacks ot otherwise hurts your dick. Female porn stars are looking to be enthusiastic lovers as well, and if she hurts you in the process, then too bad.
In Ottawa we have a porn network in town that produces 10 films a month. I've got a call into it's CEO to see there were opening for male porn stars, and occording to their web site they may have job openings. I'm going to interview Stuart about the steps to breaking into the business if you think you've got what it takes. Have a look back on my site next week, and who knows, maybe it's a new career path for you.
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I confess to being riveted by beach volleyball along with everyone else. The speed, power, how easy those Olympic volleyers make it look (have you ever tried running, and jumping in soft sand?) has me shaking my head in wonder. Having watched my share of beach volleyball (watching unclothed ball is always the highlight of my summer, and is in the top 10 list of sexy things you can do), I am always fascinated by the ability to leap straight up in the air. The women are super cool, and are really amazing to see. What I don’t get is the constant hugging after each point. My sweetie pointed out that running to hug after each point seems to spend energy needlessly, but maybe it’s the girl on girl cuddling that is part of the culture of beach volleyball.
No big elaborate surprise about why beach volleyball is so popular. Tall women, rolling around in the sand in bikini’s, and in Beijing, complete with cheerleaders. The men, are attractive, but covered up, and I don’t think as interesting to look at as the runners, shot putters, or weight lifters. It’s the variety of body shapes that I find so interesting. Tall, broad, lean, emaciated, petite, and all out Adonises. The male triatheletes are particularly astounding to look at and I marvel at their stamina. Smile.
However in the interest of light summer reading and writing I’ve found the link for a series of pictures of the asses of Olympic volleyball players. I’ll look for male butt pictures, to even things out, but as I watch the Olympic finals today I’ll be thinking about all that sand in strategic places.
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So in case you were wondering what to do tomorrow, it's International Swingers Day, the day for engaging in your run-of-the-mill-Roman or other type orgy. Which means you should invite some friends over, pull out the Oh my Pina Colada lube(oooh it's good), and frolic naked together under the full moon (conveniently arranged for tomorrow). If you don't have like minded friends who are sane and open to sharing latexed body fluids, try having a look at kijiji or Craig's list and join a party already in play. They have a site www.internationalswingersday.com, that have been counting down this day for over a year, and offer up a list of attractions. Crazy huh?
What does this mean to the average person who only sees swinging activities on late night HBO documentaries? Is it the world going to Hell in a handbasket? In my opinion, it is another inclination of how mainstream alternative sexualities are getting. No longer relegated to the backrooms of sleezy clubs, there are parties where sex is a normal adult play activity that break out amidst the cocktail wienies and work discussion. And these parties are happening in a neighborhood near you (if the personal ads are to be believed). I'm planning on having a quiet day with my sweetie (and it's also one of my best friend's birthday - and you are wearing it well Sharon…), but I wanted to acknowledge it if you are looking for an excuse to celebrate a national day that you can really sink your teeth (or other protruding parts) into. Enjoy.
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I was sitting with a girlfriend the other night (single, early 40's, blonde, professional woman) going over her profile on the online dating sites. She was telling me her adventures of middle aged dating and about the men she was meeting (the good, the bad and the oh-my-God- how-about-basic-hygiene!). What she said she was so surprised about was the number of young men in their early 20's who wanted a relationship with her. There was email after email about young men who's profile spoke of their interest in older women, and women in their 20's need not apply. These were accomplished, attractive men with jobs, busy social lives, who were hot for older women. It got me thinking about why there is such a desire to have the Mrs. Robinson affair (played the the late, great Anne Bancroft) with a young guy and older woman.
The MILF (Mothers I would like to Fuck for those of you still in the dark about acronyms)conversation continued over drinks where it was the apparent that older women still have some cache. It's older women who have experience, no what they want, can order you around, and are still remarkably well preserved. But what is the real appeal? Is it Helen Mirren in a bikin at 62, or Merle Street belting out and wearing little in Mamma Mia? I asked a bunch of guys in the online chat room of the previously mentioned dating site, and they had a few thoughts.
"I was hitchhiking through Battle Creek, Michigan, and we were passing through about the time the local high school was getting out, and I was looking at the girls.
The fellow driving, kind of smiled, and said something about me thinking all the girls were really cute and good looking, and I acknowledged I was finding them attractive. I remember him saying to me that the nice thing about growing older was that you increase your range, because as you grow older you find that older women look more attractive to you than they did when you were younger.
And I’ve found that to be true. I find women in older age groups to appear increasingly attractive to me. I’m old enough now to consider women over 50 to be "younger women" and of course they’re sexy and attractive. Heck, I find women over 60 to be as sexy and attractive as younger women now.
Raquel Welch, Jane Fonda, and many others, sure look good to me."
Ted, 21 says "Experienced women are the the best in every way. Age is not a factor!"
Joe 24 "older women just ooze sex and boy do they know what theyre doing"
"grace, you're right. Older women know exactly what they are doing. I meet with an older woman once a month, and she is better than some of the women my age. By the way, I am 29, and she is 50. My only complaint with the older women are that they don't get as kinky as the younger women do. They will only do so much."