Why a steady guy makes you less interested in sex
There is new research (at least if you listen to a bunch of Germans from Hamburg. And who has sex in Hamburg?), that once women get a steady guy, and frequency of sex starts a slow, but steady decent. Sound like your sex drive? It turns out…
Anal sex, why it may be coming to a bum near you.
I was happened to be doing a google keyword search about which sex terms were the most popular, and I was astounded to see the number of searches of individuals looking for clear information about giving and receiving anal sex. It made me wonder…
Are the sexiest people really the lousiest in bed?
There is a quote this morning from 51 year old Kim Cattrall. Now I think Kim is cool. She's a Canadian girl who did a book about sex, she played the maneater Samatha on Sex in the City (complete with an amazing wardrobe), and says that sex…
Self or Auto Fellatio – or is your flexibility an amazing gift
As a sex therapist, you never know what's may be walking into your office next. I've seen every kind of costume, and thought I had treated most problems, fetishes, and addictions in my fifteen years in private practice and handling radio calls.…
What's your motivation to have sex?
I had a bunch of tiny, low sex driven female patients again this week. Something about those size two women who can't seem to get motivated to have sex, despite great relationships, and hunky husbands. Besides the obvious physical problems,…
Why seated leg curls almost make me orgasm
I'm back exercising everyday after a winter of slothfulness. The 6:30 slog to the Y to be greeted Norm-like (where everyone knows your name) and yawning and stretching clamor onto the weight machines. I alternate between doing my arm and legs…
Am I the only one who thinks playoff beards are hot?
I've been watching more hockey lately. ast night it was the Philidelphia and Washington game (Philly 4-3 in double overtime). Which despite being the good Canadian girl that I am, atching hockey and turning into a hockey fan is a new thing…
The aphrodisiac qualities of girl guide cookies
I was in the school yard yesterday after school watching my six year old daughter unload a crate of girl guide cookies to the mothers standing around. She's a "Spark" (not even old enough to be a brownie), but she's fearless, and…
The P Spot or "Bend over Boyfriend"
The P Spot
One of the things my friend Kerrie said she would wish for if she ever happened to trip over a lamp and be granted three wishes, would be to have some genie turn her an fantastic lover. When I did an informal survey at a…
Hooker Ads – Why men are compelled to read them
When I used to advertised in the local newspaper for my clinical sex therapy services, I was invariably placed in close proximity to the hooker ads near the back pages, despite my protests. So for days I had to screen calls wondering about…