I was out last night, speaking with a group od women at a G spot seminar I gave (accompanied by the learned Dr. Squirt), and we were discussing the only vibrators that seem to work for to reach a g spot orgasm. I lean to the glass variety;…

I've written recently about the metaphors between sports and sex. Dribbling balls, jammin' baskets, and "he shoots, he scores" (or in the case of the squirting video I saw at the sex shop "she squirts, she scores...")…

Have you heard about the story of the LA traffic worker who has filed suit against Victoria Secret because her thong malfunctioned? Wardrobe malfunctions (not of Janet Jackson's infamous halftime variety), but a real woman who had a mortifying…

I continue to be such a geek, and whether it's cool new computers, high tech camping equipment, or the latest in sex toys. As a rule,  gadgets are so much fun to play with. I don't know whether it's they are shiny things, or because they…

I was asked to do a comparison of Canadian and American sex differences by McLean;s for their upcoming Canada Day issue. Here are some of my thoughts (having lost the first edition of this blog, I'll get to the steamy stuff later....  Every…

I love being a sex therapist, and think sex is one of the last great free pleasures that everyone should do with joy and grace. I know not everyone has the amazing experiences of astounding sex, and I try not to project my interest in exploring…

That according to phone sex workers polled by the EROS foundation of Australia, the most popular call in sex fantasy was being dominated by a sexy and powerful woman. Bring on the weekend dominatrixes, because it turns men on. I…

Not that I'm quoting Martha Stewart (actually she says "it's a good thing"), no I'm quoting Bettie Page the 1940's pinup queen. "Women who don't express themselves sexually become repressed,"and that…

There is new research (at least if you listen to a bunch of Germans from Hamburg. And who has sex in Hamburg?), that once women get a steady guy, and frequency of sex starts a slow, but steady decent. Sound like your sex drive? It turns out…