Have you heard about the study of something called citrulline? It's something in watermelons that dilate the blood vessels and improve sexual performace, giving people a viagra-like benefit. say cool. Imagine all the hard on's at church…
Beware Kitchen Knives, as we remember the anniversary of a very pissed off Lorena Bobbitt
I don't know if you remember the Bobbitt trial. Lorena Bobbitt, June 23, 2008 Today is the day in 1993 where Lorena Bobbitt took a kitchen knife to her sleeping husband after he was supposed to have raped her and slashed off his penis.…
Bang Stick – new kind of vibrator or something to fend off alligators?
I was out last night, speaking with a group od women at a G spot seminar I gave (accompanied by the learned Dr. Squirt), and we were discussing the only vibrators that seem to work for to reach a g spot orgasm. I lean to the glass variety;…
Why there is lots of dick waving at Boston Celtics games, and be glad they're on the ball
I've written recently about the metaphors between sports and sex. Dribbling balls, jammin' baskets, and "he shoots, he scores" (or in the case of the squirting video I saw at the sex shop "she squirts, she scores...")…
The perils of wearing lingerie, and why we should all sue Victoria Secret
Have you heard about the story of the LA traffic worker who has filed suit against Victoria Secret because her thong malfunctioned? Wardrobe malfunctions (not of Janet Jackson's infamous halftime variety), but a real woman who had a mortifying…
Why the new Apple iphones should have a vibriating feature
I continue to be such a geek, and whether it's cool new computers, high tech camping equipment, or the latest in sex toys. As a rule, gadgets are so much fun to play with. I don't know whether it's they are shiny things, or because they…
Canadian and American sex differences
I was asked to do a comparison of Canadian and American sex differences by McLean;s for their upcoming Canada Day issue. Here are some of my thoughts (having lost the first edition of this blog, I'll get to the steamy stuff later....
Every…
What sex is really meant to do
I love being a sex therapist, and think sex is one of the last great free pleasures that everyone should do with joy and grace. I know not everyone has the amazing experiences of astounding sex, and I try not to project my interest in exploring…
The Top male sexual fantasies? Sex with two women? Sex with three women? You might be surprised…
That according to phone sex workers polled by the EROS foundation of Australia, the most popular call in sex fantasy was being dominated by a sexy and powerful woman. Bring on the weekend dominatrixes, because it turns men on. I…
Why sexual repression ( or worse no sex) is a bad thing
Not that I'm quoting Martha Stewart (actually she says "it's a good thing"), no I'm quoting Bettie Page the 1940's pinup queen.
"Women who don't express themselves sexually become repressed,"and that…