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Spring courses, Why love is not enough, and new ideas to keep-it-hot

I interviewed Gretchen Rubin, the author of the Happiness Project and happiness expert a few years ago for my radio show. She offered advice like "make sure you make your bed" and "think about trying meditation" as small things you can do to…

Blog, Relationships

Why love is simply not enough to make it.

I tell my clients that simply "being in love" isn't enough to fix all of their problems. Unfortunately, love doesn't conquer all. With a 52% divorce rate in this country, couples needs more tools besides love in order to make relationships…

Workshops

The Ethical Hedonist – Part 2 Moving the chains. The advanced course

This workshop is for couples who wish to learn and understand the dynamics in enhanced sexual relationships. This is the second workshop for couples who want more information beyond an introduction. So if you are asking questions like; What…

Erectile Dysfunction

Popping the little blue pill. The cost/benefit analysis to taking Viagra and Cialis.

I think it may be so very hard for guys to date and love modern women. It’s a generality I know but modern romance puts pressure on men. Women expect a tremendous amount of confidence, skill and performance from the men we sleep with. Otherwise…

Workshops

Keeping your relationship spicy. The new workshop starting September, 2014.

So we are doing it again! The first time we ran this course it was magic. A synergy of people, laugh-out-loud fun, fantastic speakers, great information, and a way to make a serious impact on your relationship. One of the most common questions…

Relationships

8 things you can do to improve the frequency of sex in a long term relationship

There is a great article in this month's Psychology Today called Love and Lust about the things you can do to let passion thrive in a modern relationship. It's well argued and a great read if you are interested in the Psychology of intimacy.…

Blog, Hormones and Health

Testosterone, the hormone for both sexes

I see it in my office every day. Women come in who don’t feel sexy, men who can’t get it up, and couples for whom sex is a distant memory. Yes the issue can be that your partner is driving you nuts and isn’t doing the work to turn you…

Blog, sex and your body

How to reinvent yourself and become sexier.

Most people live a life of acceptance. We go through our days of work, kids, groceries, extended family and laundry. We are so busy caught up in the day to day that we don’t spend a few minutes every day reaching towards the goals we want…

Body Image, Workshops

Feather boas, pasties and thigh-high boots. The joy of burlesque

Recently as part of the couples workshop and body image groups, we had a few of the local burlesque performers talk about the power of tassels to re-claim your personal power. Everyone was blown away about the sexiness and fun of burlesque.…