,

So you think you might be a little bit kinky?

So what is the difference between being kinky and why is it called BDSM? The term BDSM dates back to 1969; The term is believed to have been formed either from joining the term B&D (bondage and discipline) with S&M (sadomasochism or sadism and…
Read more
,

Why Jim Flaherty, burlesque pasties, and smelling the roses might help your relationship. A newsletter from Sue McGarvie

Jim Flaherty, Mission Statements and why smelling the roses are important I met the former cabinet Minister Jim Flaherty in an elevator one afternoon in Ottawa. After exchanging pleasantries, he complemented me on the points I had brought forth…
Read more

Jim Flaherty, Mission Statements and why smelling the roses are important

I met the former cabinet Minister Jim Flaherty in an elevator one afternoon in Ottawa. After exchanging pleasantries, he complemented me on the points I had brought forth during a CTV panel I had just finished. Minister Flaherty as it turns…
Read more

List of the most common male and female sexual fantasies

I've been writing the article about the most common male and female sexual fantasies for the new Couples Workshop we are doing this spring. We had a great time brainstorming about possible fantasies with the group last week. Police office and…
Read more
,

That awkward conversation about sex…between couples

If you’ve been together for awhile, you may be comfortable discussing sex with each other. You no doubt have chatted about contraception, know each other’s favourite positions and you may have even ventured into the potential minefield of…
Read more
, ,

The new Ora "oral sex toy" from Lelo. Worth checking out.

Back in the 1990’s one of the best sex toys in the world was something that looked like an 18-inch replica of Gene Simmon’s tongue. Invented by a housewife with five kids in the suburbs of Toronto The Tongue by Lady Calston toys was something…
Read more

Keeping your relationship spicy. The new workshop starting September, 2014.

One of the most common questions I get asked from clients is how do you keep up the passion? Especially for people who have been together for a long time. Finding out what's new in sex, and exploring things you may haven't tried is the theme…
Read more
,

The five new facts about your health, and sexuality you've got to hear about.

Spring is the time when all the graduating medical and Ph.D. students publish their dissertations on what’s new in the area of sex and relationships. They have a number of cutting edge insights plus the occasional weird study that you can’t…
Read more

The 5 things you've never tried to give you an orgasm

I think an orgasm a day is great medicine. Forget apples (who needs the carbs) but orgasms keep the pipes clean, decrease pain and increase tolerance, lower blood pressure and give you a rush of good-feeling and positive mood endorphins. Every…
Read more
,

Why women still think that they may be frigid.

I picked up a 1950’s book at an estate sale a few weeks ago. Entitled A Doctor’s Marital Guide for Patients , it was the book given to women about to be married in the late 50’s and early 60’s. The Table of Contents included chapters…
Read more