The Valentine’s Day check in I had someone ask me this week if I thought Valentine’s Day was worth all the hype. She lamented that it was really a Hallmark invention and not worth the effort. The truth is that Valentine’s Day has been…

Sometimes guys can mean well but be clueless. It is partly because of the differences in the brain wiring and the different ways genders approach language. As a rule, and of course with exceptions, guys are more linear and respond to both acting…

One of the most common questions I get asked from clients is how do you keep up the passion? Especially for people who have been together for a long time.Finding out what's new in sex, and exploring things you may haven't tried is the theme…

When it hurts to have sex. Identifying and solving the problem. Women suffering pain during sex is a very common topic discussed during my patient sessions. It’s also the source for many tears and tissues. Think about it, if you experience…

I have lately been doing more and more sexual hypnosis for individuals who have what I call "bad original sex programming". Think of sexual thoughts and patterns that aren't healthy or fit their model of the person they want to be. Examples…

One of the questions that I ask people when they come in to see me as a sex therapist is “tell me about the best sex you’ve ever had. “ Men usually base their answer on their sexual performance. Or the time when they acted out the Kama…

After Halloween, Valentine's Day is my favourite holiday of the year. Maybe its simply the amount of chocolate that goes on sale. Either way it's the day of the year when you take a moment out to tell your partner that you would pick them all…

Orgasms are great. You know it, and I know it. Often called the peak human physiological sensation, the urge to "have a genital sneeze" or "rub one out" is one of life's great pleasures. Unlike with women where orgasm is separate from the physical…