If someone had asked me before this summer what I thought the most common fetish was, I would be hard pressed to choose between cross-dressing, or feet. After seeing the number of patients this summer who were all fixated on the feel, texture,…

Spent some more money on lingerie yesterday.  I'm a bit depraved on the subject. I gave away chests of the damn stuff after my kids were born when my body completely changed sizes in every way, but have found recently I can't close my…

I want to be old and still very sexy. I was presenting yesterday at the annual Stroke Survivors on Sex after Stroke about what you can do to keep it hot after you experience a stroke, and options for sexual functioning if you are differently…

The biggest difference between counselling men and women in my office is the amount of kleenex I go through. Men  seldom cry during therapy, and if they do, a hug and reassuring word and most of the time all is well. If I have a week of…

I'm seeing a trend in my patients over the last little while. A a few patients a correlation does not make, but I'm seeing a group of young, (under 30) female patients who'se sex drive has gone south for the winter. Given how common low libido…

Sitting around another campfire last night. This one where everyone in the group was naked (more on that later this week as I explore my inner nudist), but as the conversation drifted to weekend gynaecology from the guys sitting around, a universal…

 I have a few female patients who visit me because of their struggle to reach orgasm. Man, you've gotta feel for them. I don't climax climbing stairs, but let's just say that I've had close encounters with  dryers vibrating quickly, and western…

I helped a girlfriend move yesterday. Well, I did the beer and pizza runs, cleaned her kitchen, watched kids, and packed her shoes. And I thought I was depraved about the number of pairs of shoes... Anyway, a small gaggle of us were left at…