I have a girlfriend who in the midst of the craziness of internet dating, and has been for awhile. She says her experiences have become fodder for a book, but what I find interesting is how she can manage to keep the spark at such distances.…

In my ongoing research to actually see if I can fix female libido issues, I struggle (like most other sex therapist, doctors, and women themselves), to find something that works. I swear by huge doses of Omega 3, dark chocolate, zinc, coral…

There is something so absolutely decadent about an afternoon boff or nooner, on a day when one is supose to be hard at work. I wondered how many other women thought that mid afternoon was the perfect time to engage?  A quick google search…

  "Nothing says Hello Sailor better than ruby red lipstick"... In between working on my book yesterday, I was sent a utube video of a burlesque dance troop (Miss Mitzy Cream) I like so much. girls in pasties... There is something…

I spent my weekend standing on concrete in three inch heels watching the drag queens mix with the suburban couples. Took in the pony play spanking demonstrations, (where women dressed up in latex, pretend they are horses), and answered a bunch…

Blow jobs.... Not the topic of conversation at most dinner parties, (except maybe some of the dinner parties I've been invited to recently...). I was thinking today about the etiquette of "being in a social situation with something in your…

Another day, another bunch flurry of emails about getting into bed with your neighbors. No kidding, it's not just you who are thinking about it.  Or at least checking in case your neighbors are having better sex than you are, and you're…

I'm catching up on my email after the holiday hiatus, and am noticing that I'm getting more questions than usual about the issue of threesomes and swinging.  More and more people seem to be curious. Known as "The Lifestyle", swinging, swapping,…

There is a belief put forward by sex experts that women reach their sexual peak somewhere starting in their late 30's and ending anywhere from their 40's to menopause depending on who you read. That's not much consolation to the 20 odd million…