
The male unicorn. Why guys over 35 aren't interested in settling down.
There is a concept in modern sexual culture about unicorns. The term is used to describe an attractive single woman (who isn’t crazy and likely to boil your bunny), and who would be delighted to join a couple for a threesome with no strings…

Getting space in a relationship
You know those marriage ceremonies where they blend two candles into one symbolizing the couple becoming one entity instead of two separate individuals? Well it makes relationship therapists cringe. People are individuals. And healthy relationships…

Casino Royale with the Ducklings! Dress as your favorite Bond character!
Update! While this event has passed (and it was epic) we hold three events a week. Come be a Duckling!
We are a group of people trying not to turn into their parents, have fun, and stay sexy. We also have built a community of safe, kind, fun…

Low sex drive, the birth control pill, and why the diaphragm may make a revival.
I spend my days talking to women about low libido. Low sex drive is the number one women’s sex issue for therapists and doctors. Without exception all of the women have been on the birth control pill for a number of years and find their sexual…

Transparencies in Relationships
It was the summer of Ashley Madison. You would have had to been on Mars not to have heard about the fallout from the illegal hack to the world's most notorious infidelity site. All summer I dealt with people worried about being exposed. And…

Common sexual fantasies – They may be different than you think
So you have a recurring sexual fantasy that keeps looping through your head about an office coworker? Are you reading trashy "girl porn- harlequin romance bodice rippers" on the way to work and wish one would come true? Or you don't seem to…

How to get your mind into sex and away from distracting thoughts
It’s called busy brain syndrome. It’s when your mind runs a constant dialogue in your head. You know what I mean. It’s when the list of sixty-three things that you have to do is swirling around and you start obsessing while you may be…

Finding and keeping a great love
How will you know when you've discovered a genuine romance that will go the distance? Does it even exist? Provided that this is possible, how would you go about discovering it? Some are sufficiently fortunate to have it. They met in High school…

4 Ways To Get Back Into Dating & Relighting Your Groove
It’s probably no secret than many of us have often been tossed into the crazy world of dating and not by our own choice and typically by total surprise. Unfortunately in some instances relationships and marriages fail. But let's face it, we're…

The Sexiness Factor
I call it the Sexiness factor. It’s that elusive quality that makes you seem hot and sexually attractive to your mate or potential mate. It’s that flirty look you give your partner under your lashes. Or how a partner with a 5 o’clock…