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The tell

I guess not everyone is like this, but I have a "tell". You know, the thing that good poker players can detect you do if you are have a great or terrible hand of cards. Holding your breath, look down and to the right when you unfold your cards, anything that...

Women coming into their own

It's seems like one of the biggest cosmic jokes that women hit their sexual peak between 38 and 46, and for men, it's all downhill after 19. I personally thing that men get better (and certainly know way more about women) as they get older.  But then, I'm not a...

More thoughts on chemistry

I've been spending a great deal of time of late wondering about the elusive qualities of chemistry and attraction. What are the qualities that cause you to fall in love, in lust, or just spark off someone new? Why is it that after years of self awareness, and a good...

Bitches in Heat, Oh my, how comic books have changed

As a kid I was a big X-men fan.  I'm dating myself, but I remember the first Marvel X-men comic issue, (way better than Spidey), and even as a kid, thought Wolverine was very interesting. Loved Hugh Jackman in the X-men movie, I thought he was perfectly cast, he...

Thrust, $69.99 worth of potency

The thing about being a sex therapist is that people pull you aside at parties to ask you advice. If its a quick question, I'm happy to help. Well usually. It's the guys who see me in the grocery store that want to shoe me the sores that have broken out after last...

Dating insight- a little like guerrilla warfare

I have a few friends and patients (almost all men), who need some advice on making the connection, and meeting the right woman. The thing is, I see them all making the same simple mistakes that keep them from being in a relationship. Good guys, all of them. I tell...

Anne

Hi Sue, you likely won’t remember me- but I came to you a few years ago when I was living in Ottawa. I was having trouble with physical intimacy with my girlfriend at the time, and I had one session with you to try and determine whether the problem was psychological or physical. You believed at the time that it was likely psychological (I was in good physical shape all around, and there were a lot of unanswered questions about my future with my girlfriend, etc.)- and you turned out to be absolutely right!
Well, you should know that our session meant a lot to me- it/you helped me find clarity over the last couple years. You should also know that my girlfriend and I are still together, and doing better than ever. She moved to live with me here, we are getting a house together soon, and I may even ask her to marry me soon! I hope all is well with you, and It brings me joy to know that you are helping others every day. Thank you for the past, and hello to you in the present! You really helped me, and I’m grateful for it.
I just wanted to make sure that you received your book “Love in Abundance” in the mail. I didn’t have time to drop it off at your house before we left – it was my intention, but it was just too crazy.
Thanks again for everything you’ve done for me and J. In just a few short sessions, you helped us grow, learn more about ourselves, and about each other in very deep and intimate ways. We’ve journeyed to new places in our relationship thanks to you. (And you can quote me on that).
hugs,

Anne

B

Thank you again for being there for us as we transitioned into being Poly and eventually realizing that we could still be in each others lives but didn’t necessarily need to stay together. Our families are impressed w how maturely we have handled everything abs to be honest, our relationships with in-laws have been better than ever now that we are separated!
I miss your soul.

S

Thanks again for your time! It’s amazing how life actually has ‘life’ now…thank you! Who knew what a cup of tea could do..
Thanks again for the kind fun words. Thinking about you makes me smile. You’re a wonderful person. Keep smiling and making this world a better place.

S

Anonymouse

Hi there! Just a quick note to say that S and I really appreciate how good you are at your job, how engaging you are, and how much of a safe environment you make it. We look forward to when we don’t need your services LOL but in the meantime are looking forward to the process with you.

Anonymouse

N

I wanted to thank you so much for yesterday. I always appreciate your empathy and sage advice…. I always feel lighter–and my challenges seem less overwhelming–after chatting with you. Must admit, I was intrigued by the hypnosis idea, and definitely haven’t ruled that out. I need to find ways to be less easy for people to walk all over, but to be able to do it in ways that don’t rub people up the wrong way!

N

Dec 2020

 

“My life has pretty much done a full 180. I didn’t know how miserable I was until I experienced real life (shaking my head). A time machine would be great at times. But I made it!!! I think I promised you a picture of my firstborn, and I plan on following through on that.  You helped me so much.  Keep in touch and remember that if you ever need help with something, let me know. ”