It turns out that I am one of only a few therapists who specialize in penis size. I honestly thought more clinicians saw clients in their office who struggled with penile dysmorphia (dislike or issues with their appendages). It’s such a common theme among the cool & amazing male clients I see. Many guys with good jobs, a sense of humour, friendly outlooks are stopped in their tracks by a perception that their penises don’t measure up.

As I often comment, there are lots of other things you can do sexually that doesn’t involve a large penis. Most of the men I speak to who feel that they are smaller than average are outstanding at oral sex, have a collection of toys (and know how to use them), & are exceptional at hand work.

There aren’t many studies that honestly look at women’s preference about penis size. My own anecdotal experience is that most women prefer average sized dicks. They don’t hurt. The paper published in 2015 said women preferred girth to length. And based on 2d models and questionnaires suggested women preferred men about 6 inches erect.

“Women’s preferences for penis size may affect men’s comfort with their own bodies and may have implications for sexual health.  Women (N = 75) selected amongst 33, 3D models. Women recalled model size accurately using this method, although they made more errors with respect to penis length than circumference. Women preferred a penis of slightly larger circumference and length for one-time (length = 6.4 inches/16.3 cm, circumference = 5.0 inches/12.7 cm) versus long-term (length = 6.3 inches/16.0 cm, circumference = 4.8 inches/12.2 cm) sexual partners.”

If you are a man that doesn’t have a 6 inch penis it doesn’t mean you are out of luck in satisfying women. The study went on to use models (or dildoes & dilators) for the women to try. For women who occasionally want to feel a larger penis the strap-on toys or other phallic objects work just as well. I find that the couples I work with have great success in increasing the sensuality of their sex lives – as well as increased satisfaction in using a variety of different sized toys. It’s one of the things we work through in therapy very successfully. I have the best sources and prices. Consider a short term, Zoom session to calm down the obsession you have with your small penis. And concern you have about satisfying a partner. Let’s talk about it with a relaxed 30 minute session to start.