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Why reading erotica is fun, hot and good for you.

Fifty shades of grey may have caused somewhat of an uproar in recent years, but that doesn’t mean that erotica as a genre is any less beloved by its readers. If anything, it just goes to show that people love a good bit of naughty writing. So why is it that erotica appeals to so many people? Well, here are a few reasons why people can’t get enough of a good steamy romance.

Reading erotica can be a great way to explore fantasies while remaining completely safe. It allows you to dip your toes into the world of kink, bondage, and BDSM without having to jump right in. This is great for those who are new to the world of erotica and want to find out what they like and don’t like.

It can also be exciting to read about situations that you don’t personally experience in your everyday life. This can teach you about new sexual practices and positions, and you can use these experiences to spice up your sex life with your partner.

Perhaps the best part of reading erotica is the escape it can provide. This can be especially true for those who work long hours, have families to take care of, or are otherwise busy throughout the day. Reading erotica can be a great way to take time for yourself and your own pleasure without feeling guilty about it.

Reading erotica can also help you understand more about yourself and what turns you on. As you explore different stories, you can begin to understand the types of fantasies that you find the most enjoyable and exciting. This can be an incredibly freeing and empowering experience.

Overall, reading erotica can be an enjoyable, intimate experience that is sure to bring pleasure and delight every time. Not only is it fun, hot and enjoyable, but it can also teach you something about yourself that you never knew before.

Join the Pervy Book club! It’s free and we can often email you the book! Next edition is Sunday, March 5th. Send me a note with your email to add you to the list. Sue at sexwithsue dot com.

Let’s start a perverted book club! It’s free, by zoom and dirty minds please apply!


Literature that can get our hearts racing we have a dropbox full of hot erotica and are always on the lookout for more
It’s free and most of the books we can provide electronically in EPUB format and you can load to your phone which means you can read it on the bus and nobody knows you’re reading scantily clad people stories

Let’s explore the genre of bodice ripper’s of overall smut of general panty dampening in a fun, weekly book reading club!


We will send out a free zoom link and free books and you get to talk to people it’s gonna be a blast everyone’s welcome will occasionally see if we can meet up in interesting places if you wanna participate
Let’s be literate and let’s look at all kinds of little Rodica I can’t wait


February is the month of love let’s make it also the month of lust

send me your email address to sue @ sex with sue .com

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Why even the chief of the US intelligence service thinks erotica is essential.

There is a great article in the Guardian today that talks about the new top American spy Avril Haines who has just been confirmed to lead all 16 of the US intelligence services. Apparently besides being a pilot, physicist, mechanic, judo expert, she also read erotica at a brothel she and her partner owned in Baltimore. She is unapologetic about the need for the erotic in the modern world.

“In Fells Point, a formerly dodgy area of Baltimore that was gentrifying, the shop succeeded, through hard work and innovations like erotic literature evenings upstairs in the former brothel, where Haines would read extracts.

She defined the genre to the Baltimore Sun in 1995 as as “everything that’s repressed, guttural, instinctual, chaotic and creative”.

“Erotica has become more prevalent because people are trying to have sex without having sex,” Haines said. “Others are trying to find new fantasies to make their monogamous relationships more satisfying … What the erotic offers is spontaneity, twists and turns. And it affects everyone.”

As part of staying connected to my sex-positive social group the Ducklings we have set up Zoom erotic bedtime stories a few times a month. It regularly attracts more than 50 listeners to erotic passages, poetry, and written stories from members. It’s for couples, singles, triads, friends & comes across as warm, inclusive, and incredibly intimate. Erotica – and the passages people pick to read- allows us to get to know acquaintances faster than just about anything else. Sex is close to the bone and reflects who we are as real people.

If you haven’t read erotica I invite you to join in on one of our erotic reading nights by Zoom. It’s free and welcoming. Otherwise read some of the best sex scenes in some classic literature and see if there is anything that resonates. Sex and our sexuality is part of the human condition. And as Avril Haines summarizes, “erotica affects everyone”.