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Healthy Sex! Benefits of being sexually active

Healthy Sex! Benefits of being sexually active

Sexual activity is a natural and fundamental aspect of human life, contributing not only to emotional connections but also to overall well-being. While society often focuses on the pleasure and intimacy that sex brings, it’s important to recognize that sex also offers a range of health benefits.

Physical Benefits

  1. Cardiovascular Health: Engaging in sexual activity can be a cardiovascular workout in itself. Elevated heart rate and increased blood flow improve heart health over time.
  2. Calorie Burn: A session of intimate activity can burn a considerable number of calories, aiding in weight management and promoting a healthier metabolism.
  3. Immune Boost: Studies suggest that regular sexual activity may enhance the immune system, helping the body better defend against illnesses and infections.
  4. Pain Relief: Orgasms release endorphins, which are natural pain relievers. These endorphins can alleviate headaches, menstrual cramps, and other discomforts.

Emotional and Mental Well-being

  1. Stress Reduction: Intimacy and sexual activity can lead to the release of oxytocin and endorphins, which are known as “feel-good” hormones. These substances contribute to reduced stress levels and a more positive mood.
  2. Improved Self-esteem: Engaging in consensual and pleasurable sexual experiences can boost self-confidence and self-esteem, fostering a healthier body image.
  3. Bonding and Intimacy: The emotional connection experienced during sexual activity strengthens the bond between partners, leading to more fulfilling relationships.
  4. Quality Sleep: The release of oxytocin and other hormones during sexual activity can promote relaxation and lead to better sleep quality.

 

Hormonal Balance

  1. Hormonal Regulation: Regular sexual activity can help balance hormones like estrogen and testosterone, which are crucial for overall health and vitality.
  2. Menstrual Pain Relief: Orgasms can alleviate menstrual cramps by causing uterine contractions that expel menstrual fluid more effectively.

Cognitive Benefits

  1. Brain Health: Sexual activity has been linked to improved cognitive function and reduced risk of cognitive decline in older adults.
  2. Pleasure and Relaxation: Engaging in pleasurable sexual experiences triggers the brain’s reward system, promoting relaxation and overall mental well-being.

 

The wonderful world of intimacy goes far beyond the joy it brings in the moment. From boosting our mood and enhancing our emotional connections to reaping the rewards of physical health, sexual activity is like a secret potion for our overall well-being. Just remember, these perks thrive in relationships where consent and respect flourish. Just as we nourish our bodies with good food and exercise, we can also nurture our souls by fostering healthy attitudes towards intimacy. So, let’s celebrate the beautiful blend of pleasure and wellness that intimacy offers, all while building relationships that are as fulfilling as they are healthful.

The ABCs of Love Languages in the Bedroom: A Guide to Intimate Relationships

Welcome, dear readers, to an exploration of the fascinating world of love languages and how they apply to the often enchanting, sometimes perplexing, realm of intimate relationships. We all have unique ways of expressing and receiving love, and understanding your love language can profoundly impact your connection with your partner. So, let’s dive into “The ABCs of Love Languages in the Bedroom” and discover how our preferences for affectionate communication translate to passionate moments.

A – Acts of Service:

For those who speak the language of Acts of Service, love in the bedroom often involves acts of tender devotion and pampering. This might mean preparing a soothing bubble bath for your partner or surprising them with a relaxing massage. Remember, love is in the little gestures!

B – Beautiful Words of Affection:

In the boudoir, lovers fluent in the language of Words of Affection excel at showering their partners with sweet nothings and poetic declarations of love. They know that seduction begins with whispers of desire and ends in an enchanting symphony of heartfelt words.

C – Quality Time:

When it comes to quality time in the bedroom, these lovers cherish the intimacy of being physically and emotionally present with their partners. Whether it’s a slow, lingering gaze or a shared laugh in the afterglow, they revel in the closeness they experience together.

D – Physical Touch:

Ah, the language of Physical Touch, where love is expressed through sensuous caresses, tender embraces, and playful tickles. For these lovers, the language of love is most vividly spoken through the power of touch.

E – Receiving Gifts:

Those fluent in the language of Receiving Gifts find delight in expressing their affection through thoughtful presents. A carefully chosen token of love can ignite sparks and leave an indelible mark on intimate moments.

F – Acts of Playfulness:

This language of love brings an element of fun and playfulness to the bedroom. From pillow fights to spontaneous tickle wars, the key is never taking themselves too seriously and relishing in the joy of being together.

G – Acts of Humor:

For those who appreciate humor in the bedroom, laughter is the ultimate aphrodisiac. They crack jokes, share amusing anecdotes, and find ways to bring smiles to each other’s faces in the most intimate of moments.

H – Acts of Adventure:

In the language of Acts of Adventure, intimacy is about exploring uncharted territories together. Trying new positions, introducing role play, or even experimenting with adult toys can keep the excitement alive and the flames burning bright.

I – Emotional Vulnerability:

In the bedroom, emotional intimacy is the truest form of connection for those who speak the language of Emotional Vulnerability. Sharing fears, desires, and dreams with their partner deepens the bond and fosters trust.

J – Acts of Trust:

For these lovers, trust is an integral part of the bedroom experience. They value open communication and a safe space to share their deepest desires, knowing they are in a judgment-free zone.

K – Acts of Creativity:

Creative lovers use their imagination to make the bedroom a realm of wonder and delight. From crafting intimate scavenger hunts to inventing unique pet names, they infuse magic into every moment.

Let’s remember that understanding and embracing our partner’s love language can lead to more meaningful and fulfilling intimate relationships. Communication, respect, and a willingness to explore each other’s unique expressions of love are the keys to unlocking a world of passion, joy, and lasting connections.

New dating insights. 10 steps to successful dating in 2023

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Dating can be frustrating.

Women don’t know these to get over their fears
Not so perfect that it’s not real
It’s not a race to make him like you
The vibe should work
Being more kind in a dating situations.
Be cautious
The dates should involved building authentic connections and learning about each other. This can be done through skilful vulnerability, being authentic, and learning about each other’s core values. Use all that you know about yourself to ensure a successful vs. unsuccessful date.

Choose dating apps that best meet your needs and practice what your conversations should look and sound like before logging onto the software. Make sure to take it slow, getting comfortable with yourself and the person you are dating before jumping into something too quickly.

No matter what, remember to carry yourself with kindness and respect. Negativity or pushiness will not get you far. Be mindful of who you are giving away your energy to, as energy is the single biggest predictor of a successful date. Do not overlook the validity of phone calls; a great way to show you are interested in the other person.

Create a list of things that bring joy to you and practice “Bringing Yourself Out On A Date” or “Going on a solo-date”. Take yourself out where you could potentially meet the person you are looking for; and remember, practice self-love – say five things you are grateful for ideally five things you love about yourself.

Follow the instincts your body gives you and when you find yourself on uncomfortable dates, feel free to not-so-politely thank them for their time and gracefully exit the situation.

Ultimately, no matter how your date went, learn to be grateful for the experience and accept the outcome. Follow your instincts and trust your gut. Remain optimistic and you will find the perfect partner.

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Singles manifesto for 2023

I’ve heard it said that I could write a book on this subject, but the truth is, I’ve got enough experience with it to put on a stand-up routine. My observations from the dating world are that people today have become incredibly disposable with the internet and social media. With so many options readily available, it seems like it’s much easier for people to simply move on to someone else when they face a rough patch instead of working things out.

I’ve also seen men who have come out of 25+ year marriages unwilling to open themselves up to being hurt again. While the average woman experiences her fair share of heart ache in the dating world, she usually dusts herself of and keeps pressing forward. Whether it’s the romantic in us or just a sense of hope that there’s at least one out there who’s like us and still wants a real relationship, we continue yearning.

Unfortunately, life has gotten incredibly chaotic with balancing both work schedules and children’s extracurricular activities, which has made it difficult for people to invest a large amount of time into pursuing one person. It takes considerable effort and determination to make sure that those precious moments are well spent.

Since most of us go against our nature by practicing monogamy, it is important for both men and women to learn how to compromise and open their minds to things that might not have been on their real estate laundry list. Holding out for perfection will always leave you feeling unsatisfied and alone. It also pays to be honest about what you’re looking for and to be genuine in every aspect of the process.

At the end of the day, it’s important to have a bit of fun with the process. While some of your dates might not be romantically or sexually compatible with you, you never know who they might know who might make the perfect match. Even if you don’t make a romantic connection with someone, it is possible to make a friend. Ultimately, dating should be about opening yourself up to new experiences and having faith that you’ll find what you’re looking for.

Ottawa's sexiest couple as part of the new Love and Lipstick radio show

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Hey!
We are looking for Ottawa's sexiest couples!
 
But sexy is defined as who you are, NOT what you look like.
I dont need pictures, I need descriptions of what makes you sexy.
Have you been together forever and still get butterflies when he/she walks through the door?
Do you take romantic adventures and feel super connected?
Does your partner clean off your car, bring you tea, rub your feet, send love notes in your lunch and do things that make you feel incredibly loved?
Then I want to hear from you!!
 
I want couples in all age groups, so if you still have 80 year old grandparents who are still "goosing" eachother, then have them write me!
 
At Love and Lipstick we define the quality of your life as the quality of your relationships. 
Men define themselves by what they do professionally, women by who they are and relationships by how close and connected you feel.
 
Lets start by defining what is sexy to you.
We will be having contesting as adventures for Ottawa's sexiest couple, so I want to hear from you!Sex with Sue, 99.7 EZ Rock