Men have long been jealous of the way women can have one orgasm after another (thank you, thank you very much!). The reality is that men can experience multiple orgasms provided they do some advance work on tightening and strengthening their PC muscles. Those are the muscles that lie under the pelvis that control ejaculation. The truth is that ejaculation and the sensation of orgasm come almost simultaneously in men, but hey are separate functions. If men can learn to hold onto the ejaculation, they can experience the peak feeling of orgasm again and again before they finally squirt. I am working on a video about hw specifically to do this, and have found the dominatrices really adapt at teasing without “coming” and punishing their playmates who come early. This combination of the carrot and stick have worked well with premature ejaculatory and men learning to control their sexual sensations.
Start with the basic keegal exercise. Pretend you are peeing, and then stop the flow and squeeze down. Follow that up by putting a wet facecloth over your erection and moving it up and down.
We’ll get to prostate massage, pressure points and perineum stroking in future posts. In the Duckling social group we had a great tantra class that taught amazing ejaculation control. We have chapters in 5 cities and it may be something to look into. Otherwise a counseling session will show you some of the basics that work with controlling ejaculation and turn you into a rock star. One hour at $125 may make all the difference. Book a time for a relaxed, fun, interactive conversation.