I’ve spent my career helping people feel that their sexual feelings are normal and healthy. It’s sad that societal pressures make so many feel like they are wrong, or perverted for sexually wanting the things that get them off. Provided whatever you are into is safe, legal and consensual you should be allowed to creatively add your kink or fetish to your sex life. Most people have something quirky that interest’s them sexually. Being gentle with yourself and dipping a toe into sexual diversity is something I can help with.
If you are struggling coming to terms with the fact that you may be a little (or a lot) kinky then I encourage you to talk about it. I tell clients that if your fetish interferes with everyday life (ie you are spending your day watching porn) or it impacts your relationships then it’s time to get some help. Fetish and kink counseling is a large part of my private practice. I offer both in person and virtual counseling. Let me help you deal with the feelings (both pleasurable and uncomfortable feelings), help you find play partners, and let you get to a place of self awareness with a few targeted therapy sessions. It’s affordable ($140/hour or $75 for 30 minutes) and with over 25 years of experience I can solve the problem quickly. Let’s start with one session. We can do it by phone if you are concerned about being seen.
Examples of fetishes and kink I’ve seen over the years include:
Nylons/pantihose
Cross dressing and feminization
Feet or shoe
Restraint
Rubber
Discipline
Humiliation
Voyeurism/Exhibitionist
Edge play
BDSM
Breath play
Cuckholding
CBT
Orgasm control
Age play
Impact play
Rope play
Orgasm control
Please reach out. Let’s set up one appointment. Take the step to add deal with your fetish and kink in a positive way today.